Being a man is tough not only because we have so many expectations heaped upon us at birth or because of the numerous hurdles we have to clear before reaching adulthood. But being a man is exceedingly difficult because we have to deal with women. Even though a woman is man's ultimate measure of success, a woman is also man's greatest mystery and challenge. The truth is every man wants a good woman in his life becomes she brings a calm that he needs in a world filled with chaos. A good woman essentially represents the highest level of achievement that a man can have. A good woman automatically upgrades a man's status and gives him immediate credibility. In a good woman, he has a lady with an attractive face and figure that makes other men envious. She is a supportive partner that can help him build a home. And most importantly she becomes the sacred vessel that brings his offspring into the world thus continuing the rein of his lineage. She completes him by becoming the one person that when all is said and done he can rely on to remain in his corner and encourage him to be great despite overwhelming odds. But what makes a woman a GOOD WOMAN. Well I will tell you but only if you are willing to listen...you are?! That's great!!! There are 3 qualities that a good man looks for when he is searching for a GOOD woman.
She must have confidence. She must be loyal. And above all else she must be understanding. What?! Am I serious?! YES!!! Granted, men are ATTRACTED to a woman with a pretty face, a big ole booty and a pair of cushy boobies but that is not what keeps us CONNECTED to a woman. Confidence, Loyalty and the ability to be Understanding will keep a man WANTING to stay and not feeling that he is obligated to stay. Confidence in a woman is a very attractive trait. It tells a man that she doesn't need him to lead her to success but that she is comfortable enough in her own to allow him to lead as she walks beside him. Loyalty is a simple concept but one that is rarely expressed. A woman's loyalty to a man is something that he will ALWAYS respect. A man knows that eventually he will fuck up bad but it's the knowledge that she will support him and forgive him for the stupid shit he does that gives a man the sense of security that he will have someone that still believes in him even when he fails. A woman's loyalty is hard to acquire so he knows once he has it he will do whatever it takes to keep it. Understanding. A woman's ability to be understanding cannot be undervalued or taken for granted.
Many women have the desire to nurture which can interfere with a man's ability to grow. A good woman has to be able to understand that he may not always vent about his problems, he may not always ask for help, he may hide his pain. But most important is that a woman HAS TO UNDERSTAND that she is not a man! So therefore she will never understand what it is like to be one and should not under any circumstance try to take his place as one. If a woman exhibits these three traits Confidence, Loyalty and Understanding she can put herself in a position to elevate herself to the status of a GOOD woman and therefore become attractive to and in a better position to remain connected to a GOOD man. Oh one more point a minor/major point...a good woman should constantly make her man's dick hard, not his life. A man that is happy with the life he shares with a woman will make every effort to make her life happy as well. No man wants to be constantly at odds with the woman he loves. He wants a woman that he can respect and appreciate. He wants to know that his lady respects AND accepts his role and the work he puts in. He wants and has to be the good man that protects and provides all the needs and wants that his good woman deserves. He needs to have that reassurance every now and again that his woman depends on him (even if we both know you don't). So can you be a GOOD woman? Cause if you can then just be patient in your search for love and companionship. You will find your equal because every good man wants a good woman.
Be BETTER TODAY, than you were yesterday...
TWIL
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